The reason I asked you to think about WHY has a lot to do with what Jim just said. Too many people think that being an owner means that you get to sit around at the bar, welcoming your friends. Or that you have nothing to do but cook your favorite dishes all the time. Or even :eek: that you can make money! Owning a restaurant is the same as owning any other business -- except that it's more like owning about 20 different businesses at the same time.
Let's just say that we will sometimes simulate the "trial by fire" (and by water, and pestilence, and war, and all those other bad things ;) all of which do, in fact, happen in restaurants) to test whether or not you have what it takes to make it. Some of us are restaurant owners or have food-related businesses; some are professional cooks (a very, very few actually have earned the right to be called chefs or pastry chefs -- yes, there is a BIG difference); some work as caterers; some teach. We are all passionate about food and feeding people -- and about doing the absolute best we can in all ways. It may sound far-fetched to refer to it as an exclusive club, but really that's what it is. And so before we'll even consider teaching you the "secret handshake" we want to have a sense that you are "worthy."
So if you have an idea that you really, really, REALLY want to execute, start reading and studying and working. Not just about food and cooking, but also about how to run a business, and about math and accounting, and psychology, and languages, and history, and plumbing -- in other words, everything you'd need to be successful. And if all that seems too daunting (which of course it is, all at one time), take it in small steps. Practice your cooking at home while you learn the other aspects of the business and of managing people. Or start working as a cook somewhere, and bit by bit work on learning the rest.
If you haven't looked around ChefTalk much yet, please do! You're not the first to ask about this, and so you'll find lots more advice. And don't give up your dream. :D