ask 'em why. not in front of people, but do ask them. you'll get the
'oh, sibs are always jealous of each other, we don't do that' thing, but persist.
nicely.
and list off the things you are proud of in yourself to them. they might not even have
a clue these things were even important to you. really. this is
what my daughter had to do with me, and she was right. |