here are the ones i own
this one was given to my mom by some indians when she was living in new york
Maya Kaimal: In 1969 the wife of an American diplomat created a masterly cookbook on a cuisine with a reputation for difficulty and centuries of tradition and technique. Like her contemporary Julia Child, also married to a diplomat, Mary S. Atwood arrived at her foreign posting filled with curiousity, respect and a passion for the delicious. In "A Taste of India: Adventures in Indian Cooking Prepared for the American Kitchen" Atwood displayed an intuitive sense of how to make the intimidating accessible. She stripped recipes down to their essence without sacrificing their integrity. Atwood, like Child, was a culinary translator, building a bridge between cultures.
My American mother loved Atwood's book for its reliability, and my Indian father loved it for its authenticity. I admire the crisp clarity of her recipes. But the highest compliment of all came from an elderly auntie visiting from India, herself an excellent cook. After looking long and carefully at its pages, she declared, "I must get this cookbook."
Maya Kaimal is the author of "Curried Favors" and "Savoring the Spice Coast of India." Amazon.com: A Taste of India: Mary S Atwood: Books
this next one is great especially because of its wonderful pics, and it has some great recipes. except it doesnt explain the kashmir masala paste.. thats easily fixable by googling though!
Amazon.com: Curry Lover's Cookbook: Mridula Baljekar: Books
I HIGHLY recommend julie sanhi's
classics of indian cooking!!!!
Amazon.com: Classic Indian Cooking: Julie Sahni: Books