And the reason why quickbreads are so easy to get tough is because of the high amount of liquid ingredients. My cooking utensil of choice is the whisk because of it's efficiency in mixing. Each loop provides two tines for mixing. So in just a few strokes, the dry and wet ingredients come together. I stop stirring once I don't see any streaks of flour.
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I taught high school students how to bake a little while back. I'd say the most important thing that I needed them to understand was how to read a recipe (its format and technical instructions). Have fun with your students.