Gone are the days when women have to worry about this. We are now to be thought of as equals, not as pretty accessories who have to look and act in a way that makes us demure and powerless. Besides, I can't think of anything more dainty than a little nugget of food. I'm all for respecting other cultures, but I will dip as I see fit, and I like a little soy on my rice. Soak it up baby.