Will you be staying in Charlotte at all? That's all I know, this comes from my BFF who lives there:
Charlotte is a series of neighborhoods, so it's full of fine eateries depending on where you are.
Uptown: 5 Church Restaurant, Rooster's Restaurant are both delicious
Midtown/Metropolitan: Dressler's Restaurant
Plaza Midwood:Midwood Smokehouse (best BBQ in town) Soul Gastrolounge, Peculiar Rabbit, The Dish (a no frills, southern food - killer meatloaf...