Ok, decided not to get a grill, I'll have a small charcoal or gas grill to use outside anyway.
I'm still leaning towards the cuisinart multiclad line, set or not.
I can get the 12 piece multiclad for $226, then buy a nonstick multiclad 10 in. frypan for $60 (or should I just buy a cheap teflon one for like $20? What differences will I notice? I want these pans to last a long time), buy an extra 4 qt multiclad saucepan for $50, my dad said he'd buy me a wok.