Hi I am new to this forum site and I am a personal chef, I feel I should ask for a raise, but the people I work for are very hard to even sit down and discuss what they want. The nanny does the shopping and the maids clean. I cook, how ever I suck at deserts! I go fancy they want sloppy Joe's, I go down home comfort food, they want foo-foo appetizers, but all this comes thru the nanny and the have 6 to 8 kids depending on visitation days from 1 year to 17 years I make a...