Castiron is right, maybe a thicker batter, or you can try the old flour trick: Make your batter as per usual, but save a little of the measured flour, then toss your fruit in the flour and fold in.
Oh, do you "massage" your fruit? Instead of soaking, I toss the fruit, booze, fruit juices, etc into a mixing bowl and with the flat beater, mix it gently for a few minutes. This softens up and bruises the dried fruit, allowing it to soak up the liquid. It usually takes a week of soaking without agitiation to acomplish the same thing....