How nice to be agreed with! ;)
Point of explanation: at the restaurant, we would have one large round sieve/strainer sitting with its bottom in the pan of milk, and another on top of the pan of flour. So it was easy to throw a portion into the milk, swish it around, pull out the strainer to shake off the excess, dump the calamari from that strainer into the one in the flour, scoop flour on top and shake it around, then shake off the excess before dropping it into the fryer basket. Very fast, very clean (no flour/milk gunk on your hands). This would work with flour, flour+cornmeal, just about any dry coating.