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post #1 of 46
Thread Starter 
As much as we remember our worst dining experiences - and there seem to be quite a few threads reflecting this - what is your BEST experience for a dining experience? Be it a pub, a diner, a cafe, a high class restaurant - or even a friend's house - I reckon we should share them. And *why was it the best - the food, the ambience, the wait staff, the facilities....what made it good for you?

I've had some of my best times in simple country pubs - it's surprising what's out there. There's a local bakery here
where you can get lunch, fully licensed too, which has a great warmth and a simple but surprisingly good menu based on a lot of local produce and it has great staff, we visit at least once a month and look forward to it. And it doesn't pretend to be anything its not - very important I think.

Lets hear from you :) when you've got a moment.

Cheers!

DC
post #2 of 46
It was the simplest meal, put together with what was found in an almost bare cupboard. We at tinned sardines, saltine crackers, and drank Pisco and Coke while listening to Susana Rinaldi on a cheap boom box. Lucia and I had the most glorious sobremesa that lasted for hours, and it was the first time I'd ever heard Rinaldi sing.

I've been fed by some of the best-known chefs in California, but no meal was as memorable as this one.

Shel
post #3 of 46
Wife and I went to The Gables in Corvallis, Oregon.

The situation was a lot of the reason it was so memorable. Our twins were 1 and a half years old. We hadn't had time to ourselves in over 6 months, never anything like even a quick lunch.

For my birthday my in-laws watched our kids when we went out to dinner. It was so weird not having to listen for a wah. We had escargot with bread sticks just out of the oven. They make such good escargot, in a butter, herb sauce and a little dry cheese sprinkled on top. I asked for a glass of the house Merlot. Then she got soup and I got salad and we shared. Chicken bisque soup and very fresh greens. Four freshly made dressings to choose from, and big crunchy buttery croutons. My favorite dressing was the herb vinaigrette.

She ordered grilled parmesan halibut with angel hair noodles, with alfredo sauce, and I had filet mignon. Both plates were served with a side of vegetables--sauteed green beans, sweet red peppers, asparagus and a bit of onion, with herbs. We both got the blue cheese mashed potatoes.

We both love chocolate and for dessert we ordered their chocolate-espresso cheesecake to go, because we were too full to have it then.

We walked home, since the restaurant was only 2 blocks away. That was memorable. Time with just her.
post #4 of 46
Thread Starter 
Shel and Yeti - its lovely to have a great memory of a great meal - no matter where or when its found or why it was memorable - there are special reasons to you yourselves for why it was so good. Thank you for sharing.

A simple take away had at home can easily classify as great - if the memory is good - then the experience is worth remembering. Or it can be a fancy meal on the QEII on a cruise- it doesn't matter. If it was good for you - its worth it.

It's lovely to hear something constructive about a dining "experience" - sure there's bad ones, but there's gotta be really good ones out there too :)

DC
post #5 of 46
While it's understandable that many people often focus on food when it comes to dining, it's also the situation, experience, and the companionship that's just as or more important than the food. I cannot remember the food - except, perhaps, in a general way - with most of the truly wonderful experiences I've had. I remember the people, the conversations, an incident. Those are the things that made the experience truly memorable. I can remember most all the details of an experience more than twenty years ago, but I have no idea what we ate. In fact, to this day, the restaurant owner remembers our party as we literally stayed past closing, enjoying our conversation. And the owner of the place had the good grace not to rush us even though we were there well past 2:00am - long after the place had closed.

Shel
post #6 of 46
I've had several great meals at Chez Sophie in Saratoga Springs, NY. (Helped that my dining companion was the daughter in law of the NY Times wine writer) But I've had fantastic meals there without dropping high octane names.

And on Friday I tried a new place, The Owl at Twilight, in Olmsteadville NY.(puny town in the Adirondack Mountains)

I was impressed; I was part of a party of 11. Atmosphere was great; we were seated on the screen porch overlooking the herb garden. Service was tops---two waitesses handled everything with skill. And the food was very good, lobster ceviche, seared scallops for apps, delish arugala salad with grape tomatoes and a few blanched green beans---entrees were good---a fish stew with coconut, lobster, scallops, rack of lamb, rib eye, duck breast, salmon, strip steak. My only complaint was that my duck breast didn't really taste like duck because it was grilled on the same grill as the beef and pork. Interesting sides like purple potatoes. Desserts were good too. Nice touches like little pottery dish with course ground pepper and kosher salt artfully arranged, olive oil decanters on table, roasted garlic served along with butter, excellent bread from a well known local bakery, and this is cool---they have nice soft shawls on the chairs in case you get a little chilly.

Everything was done with care. Best restaurant experience I've had in a few years.
post #7 of 46
For the life of me I can't remember the name of the hotel. When you drive into Lake Louise Alberta, you drive up a hill to get to the landing of the lake. When you get to the crest of the hill, there is a boutique hotel on the north side of the road. My lovely wife and I shared an amazing platter of fresh game sausages and hams, served with a variety of bread, fresh sweet salsa and a beautiful plum marmelade. It's making my mouth water just remembering this wonderful experience. Server was very attentive, but never a presence at the table; our glasses were always full, our dirty plates removed before they became bothersome. The bill for our lunch came out to almost $75 and I left $125. My wife was flabbergasted, but I can appreciate immaculate service and did not feel like I had over-tipped for the experience we had shared.
post #8 of 46
Thanksgiving day, 1990 or 1991, can't remember. Me and my buddies, living in our vans. Parked next to each other so the sliding doors opened and faced each other. Two roast chickens bought at the grocery store, rice cooked over a campstove. :)
post #9 of 46
Hot pastrami sandwiches with potato salad on the side in Manhattan up the corner from the Holiday Inn on 57th street at the 400 Club.

doc
post #10 of 46
Our first candlelight Christmas Eve dinner in our first house!
post #11 of 46
It's never the food that makes it memorable. It's the people, and the circumstances.

For me that would be the surprise birthday party we threw my Mom on her 80th. That was the last time the entire family got together except for funerals.

Twelve of us gathered at a polynesian restaurant in Fort Lauderdale. Don't ask me what we ate, or what the floor show consisted of. But I can tell you many of the conversations that took place. And still see my youngest using the bamboo napkin holder to impersonate Princess Leah. And, later on, my brother finding a birthday candle that sang happy birthday.
post #12 of 46
Thread Starter 
Our family is like that too - although I'm the only one who lives a plane flight away from the rest - they rarely get together.

My youngest brother finally got engaged to be married (at 40 better late than never I guess!), and I managed to fly over to be at their party. He didn't know, and only my parents and sister knew - the looks on their faces was worth more than all the gold in Fort Knox! I think it made the day even more special (I hope). The party was very informal, a bbq in a local nature reserve, but lots of friends and family and the surprise made it a very special gathering. Got to share news and gossip and be with all my family for the first time in years - it was lovely :)
post #13 of 46
I can't name just one memorable experience at this particular restaurant as the owners were just awesome! It was a small Chinese place in Warsaw, IN located in a shopping center. We went there frequently on work lunches or even for dinner in the evenings. They had a buffet but you could also order off the menu. Over time, we got to know the owners and they'd always come over and talk to us as well as entertain my daughter (4 at the time) when she was with us. When I was pregnant with my son, I alway wanted something lemon flavored. I told Amy, the owner's wife and she went back and made me a lemon chicken dish that was to die for. After that she'd always ask me if I was in the mood for it and go make it if I was. On Chinese New Year, the family was having dinner in the back corner and Amy came over talking to us. She was telling us about their food and how different it was from the food for the general public. She explained some of the traditions and later came back with plates of their food for us. We always felt very welcome there and I would love to be able to eat at their restaurant again!
post #14 of 46
I don't know if you would call this "dining" but it was another great one.

I was in training for my work, and there was a call for no heating. It was the coldest morning since I moved here, about 3 below zero Fahrenheit (about -18 Centigrade). My trainer and I had been to this place before and apparently we hadn't solved the problem as we thought we had.

When we went into the house to check out the thermostat, there was a delicious smell of breakfast. My buddy said to the man "I guess we're too late for breakfast". He was just kidding. I had skipped breakfast and that smell made me so hungry.

We went out to the garage to work on the furnace. Even though it was really cold, the sun was shining into the garage and reflecting off the snow too. The man brought out two big bowls of pan-fried potatoes, piping hot. We sure didn't expect that! Man, that really hit the spot. They were the best I've ever had. His wife said the kids didn't want any and she didn't know what to do with them anyway. Of course we gave them a big thank-you.

Well anyway we fixed the furnace right this time. It acted up when we were there, unlike the last time, so we were able to figure it out.
post #15 of 46
One of the most memorable meals I ever had was in Milan, Italy. We had just arrived and it was late and we didn't want to go wandering the streets so we went upstairs to the hotel restaurant. Well they were packed out but kindly let us in - the only condition was that we had to eat the the same food as the people were being served at the table next to us. They had ordered a set menu.

Well it was just amazing. The food kept coming. They would serve the people at the table and then head on over to us with whatever was left. I can't remember how many courses there were but I ate way too much.

And at the end they only charged us half of what the people at the next table had paid.
post #16 of 46
Yamazato Restaurant at the top of the Hotel Okura in Amsterdam
A traditional Japanese restaurant with a Sushi Bar. MAN THE FOOD WAS GOOD!!!!


One of the things I distinctly remember is 'fried' ice cream in rice paper with sesame seeds. By the way if anyone has a recipe or knows how to do it....


hmmm - its all turned italics on me and I can't unclick it!
post #17 of 46
French Laundry on our honeymoon. I felt like a kid again...
post #18 of 46

Befsteak & Pomme Frites

My most memorable dining experience was in Paris France with thin cut fillet mignon and blue cheese sauce over pomme frites (french fries)
post #19 of 46
I've had many, but one that stands out was on a rainy afternoon in New York City a few years ago around Suzanne's table with friends from Chef Talk and lots of great food and conversation! :bounce:

Another was in 1998 upon returning to France for the first time in over a decade, and having my first bite of a baguette smeared with rillettes du porc. :lips:
post #20 of 46

Fishing in Killin ( no resaurant, cafe involved)

In the highlands for a long weekend, Me, my man & my boy went fishing for trout with a contingency plan.(just as well cos we caught squat) Lovely afternoon though.
We took along a disposable bbq which was as much use as a chocolate teapot. Made a fire and cooked off Angus steak sausages shoved in granary rolls with Dijon mustard & Linghams( malaysian sweet chilli sauce)We really do carry it everywhere we go.
There were hard boiled eggs, salt and pepper, a chunk of local cheddar,cheese scones and butter and red onions. Strawberries and marshmallows and a flask of tea and it was truly memorable
post #21 of 46

experiencential memories

hi...

wow this is the most interesting blogg i have ever read. Im a student current in my final year studying industrial design and technology. for my final year project i am taking on the task of building a unique dining experience. its about the pschology behind memories, emotions and being able to revisit them.

..i want to find out why people remember places they have been to eat out, not talking about the food, but what emotions did you feel..how does it make you feel when you go back there or think about the occasion. what makes it the most memorable occassion.

all comments welcome.

thanks kt
post #22 of 46
Thread Starter 
KTC,
Its not necessarily just the food - although it helps to enjoy what you're eating!

I think people have summed it up pretty well here - its good company, the warmth of the atmosphere, sometimes a very special occassion, it means something personal to the people involved and holds a special place in their memories. Certainly feeling welcome and comfortable are big factors.

Its a bit, to me, like a big bear hug from a loved one when you most need it :)

Good luck with your studies - are you actually building such a place or designing and proposing it? (this prob sounds naive but just interested is all :) )


DC
post #23 of 46

...unearthing the emotions

hi dc sunshine,

thanks for that i understand what you mean about the whole environment etc being important. I am really interested with the emotions that consumers feel throughout the duration of the meal, thats in terms of before, during and after and even a week later.

next time you go out for a meal (that would be a meal not at home, cooked by someone else in a different place) jot down a few notes nefore you go about your expectations, then a few inbetween courses and then when you get home. a week after the occasion write down a few notes about what you really remember about the occasion. post them and see what others think.

its interesting to look back and recapture the occasion how ever small it may be.

cheers,
KTC

p.s. i will eventually actually be making a 'thing' of description to go into this sort of environment. can you think of any that are already out there...are there any over in austrlia???
post #24 of 46
Thread Starter 
Hey KTC,
Not exactly sure what you mean here -can you elaborate?
Cheers,
DC
post #25 of 46

..a task to find out how to capture the moment..

hi there,

Its a little confusing to understand and as yet i admit im not 100% sure about what im doing as the project has only just kicked off.

I am looking into how an unique fine dining experience can be enhanced and remembered, how people capture the moment and why certain occasion/venues are more memorable than others. This isnt linked towards the food but towards every other aspect in the dining occasion. From the service, venue, atmosphere, company, to the interaction between the customer and the food and how they feel emotionally about the occasion.

Trying to unlock the emotions of people is very difficult as these are extremely personal to every individual, making us unique.

THE TASK;
before you next go out for a meal cooked by someone else not in your home. write down a few bullet points about your expectations, exictment, thoughts and feelings about the event. if it is a planned occasion, who is going, where, when, what day etc.

when your there soak up all the atmosphere, ambiance and feelings about the occasion.

when you have finish the meal and away from the environment (mostlikely to be the next day). right bullet points about the place, weather it lived up to its expectations, fulfilled your potential, what the atmosphere was like, your feeling throughout the occasion and wether these changed from when you first entered to when you left. what is the first thing you remember instantly about the occasion and why. how did you capture the moment and how will it be remembered amongst all other occasions.

a week after the occsion do extactly the same thing.

post them and see what people reactions are, we did amongst a 3 of others and its interesting to see the differences and similarities that people have.

i hope this make more sense...and its an interested exercise to carry out around the whole fine dining culture.

Thanks,
KTC
post #26 of 46
It's more about the location, the occasion and of course the company. Put all these factors together with great food and you have a memorable occasion. My most memorable was in Barcelona about ten years ago. A simple little restaurant in the harbour where i had the best cod I have ever eaten, cooked in a fresh tomato sauce with cheese... it was simply delightful, it must have been fresh out of the sea that afternoon. I am sure if I had it again in a different location it would not be the same. Oh and of course we finished the meal with a fantastic Spanish brandy.
post #27 of 46
Hmm...This is sooo tough as I've had some truly outstanding dining experiences... (Still on my list to try: The Inn at Little Washington (This is consistently on the World's Best lists, meals start at about $500 for two, and before you haters start price-griping, from what I hear from my friends --both regulars and those who have gone as a yearly splurge -- you realize you've never even tasted food before you ate there.)

Roy's or Pacific on Maui, Kauai, and the Big Island -- The ambience is nice (I mean, it is Hawaii!) but it's all about the food there -- still addicted to pickled ginger, opakapaka, and mahi mahi(not all at once, LOL!), and it's where I learned it's OKAY for my food to touch, LOL....

Warm Apples and Goat Cheese on Phyllo crisps followed by tableside Chateaubriand at Les Auberges de Chez Francoise (hope I'm spelling that right, lol) in Great Falls, Virginia...Book a month in advance, and finish off with their famous chocolate souffle....Wow, I miss VA right now, LOL.

Sweet, succulent Soft-shell Lobster from the Lobsterman Co-Op in Boothbay Harbor, Maine. (Lots of debate on Soft vs. Hard shell lobster -- Hard gives more meat, but Soft yields the sweetest meet with an indescribably delicious flavor -- Don't be tempted by the more meat thing....less is more with Soft-shell) My lobster has just been caught a few hours before I'm eating it (for $14.95/pound, no less), pulled live from a bucket, named for my ex, and steamed outside and eaten on a dirty picnic table overlooking the Harbor at sunset with friends while we duck the marauding seagulls. If we're still hungry, we'll go back for paper platters of whole-bellied fried clams or mussels and everyone shares. Later we walk over the footbridge into town and shop, eat ice cream, and duck-pin bowl. (Sooo can't wait for summer!)

But....the best of ALL....has to be Emeril's Delmonico on the edge of the Garden District in New Orleans. Start with amazing service (the kind that has one server picking up your dropped napkin while another lays a fresh one across your lap before you have time to take a breath) and to die for martinis. Add 3 of your best girlfriends, and no kids related to you for 600 miles. Then order the Prime Tournadoes of Beef...They'll come plated on garlic mashed potatoes with some unimportant vegetable, and at first glance, the whole plate looks like kind of a mess, and you think, What have I ordered? But then you take the first delicious, melt-in-your-mouth bite of the beef, and you can't believe anything could be this tender and tasty and still be from a cow. And when your friends see the look on your face, your best girlfriends, the ones you would do anything for, and they try to swipe a bite (cause everyone was SUPPOSED to be sharing), you make a strange, gutteral noise and swipe at them with your fork.

Yeah, it was that kind of good. :) Oh, and dessert, whatever it was, was fine, too. :D
post #28 of 46

...sine you asked...

The following is a post from 2004, but it still holds true:

I was fortunate enough to be in Chicago over Valentine’s Day. I say fortunate, because Spiaggia is on the corner of Lake Shore and Michigan overlooking “the beach” on Chicago’s Magnificent Mile. I was sure to capture a reservation some six weeks out, knowing of Spiaggia’s reputation from several ChefTalk-ers.
“Can we send you a copy of the menu, sir?”
With that, I knew my wife and I were in for an anniversary dinner to remember. And, alas, the emailed menu proved only to be problematic. Problematic because the selection process proved too daunting; so many fantastic offerings and only one night to enjoy them.

We arrived fifteen minutes before our reservation; concerned that traffic on Valentine’s Day would be problematic. The only problematic part of navigating traffic was the taxi driver who insisted on the scenic view, without our even requesting the scenic view. Eighteen dollars lighter for what should have been an 8-block taxi ride, we strolled into the lounge to await our table. Barely halfway through an expertly prepared screwdriver (juice squeezed a la minute) our host arrived silver tray in hand to caddy our beverages to our table.
The captain greeted us swiftly and explained the night’s prix fixe selections. To start, she explained, was the arduous task of making the selections for our first through third courses. She didn’t exactly say “arduous”, but with the amazing selections from which to choose, it was not going to be easy. I was prepared for this. The anticipatory menu that arrived a few weeks earlier prepared me for this. Well sort of. You, see, given that this was the moment of truth, all the speculating as to what I was going to order fell by the way side. My wife went with the Grapefruit salad with microgreens, hazelnuts and honey dressing. I opted for the olive oil and butter poached shrimp with chic pea paste. The amuse bouche from the kitchen was a pair of oysters on their half shell with a dollop of tomato sorbetto. Small, delicate mollusks, obviously just shucked were an exciting flavor with the complimentary chilly tomato zest of the sorbetto. Also arriving was the bread service. The server explained the five selections of breads, including my favorite, the ciabiatta with its tell-tale holes in between flour imbedded crust that snapped with each bite. My wife opted for delicate bread sticks that resembled a drinking straw meets a steam roller. They were flat and about 8-inches in length and delicate.

The shrimp was unbelievably tender and ripe with amazing flavor. I was speculative about the chic peas’ role in the dish, but when teamed with the buttery allure of the shrimp was opulent. The head-on presentation with the quenelle-shaped paste was straightforward and appealing. My wife, not usually a fan of grapefruit, was sure to comment on her surprise at the great flavor of her selection. She is known for being a finicky eater; the wife of a chef, and she is finicky. There is no explaining some things.

The second course brought guitar string spaghetti with lobster for me. The pasta was delicate but not without requisite al dente texture. It was yet another difficult decision. There was a gnocchi selection that piqued my interest, as well. The portion of lobster was more then generous. A ravioletto tucked with ricotta with a red wine sauce was to my wife’s liking. It was a pasta pillow that was hearty and flavorful without being weighty. It was here that my wife, after a half bottle of Riesling from the 40+ page wine list, explained she wanted to sing about her enjoyment of the meal thus far.
There was no pretension with the habitual topping off of the water goblets after every sip. Nor was there stuffiness to the arrival of silverware suited for the forthcoming dish. There was no shortage of attention to detail. Our captain walked my wife to the restroom rather than merely pointing her in the right direction. The service was comfortable and professional, rather than forced and uneasy.
I am not, by my election to eat in an apparently healthier manner, a meat eater. With the age of Atkins, South Beach, Mad Cow and Avian Flu, I am not sure which is the lesser of two evils, I set aside any thought process for my meal and went purely primal; I went with whatever appealed most. The Colorado roasted lamb chops with a ‘mash’ of roasted garlic and artichokes and roasted lamb ribs was amazing. The meat was tender and showed off so much flavor in a straightforward manor rather than imbue the creativity of the kitchen. Sometimes the discipline of a good cook is to know when less is more. The garnish spoke volumes of the kitchen’s ability to perform. The roasted lamb ribs were paper-thin slices of lamb that defined why it tastes so good to gnaw on bone at the end of a meal. And what an unusual accompaniment. The roasted garlic amalgam was a brilliant compliment; a dab on each slice of medium-pink lamb was a stroke of genius in this expertly contrived dish. My wife was equally thrilled with her wood-roasted salmon. It was cooked a perfect medium, which by this point of the evening was a forgone conclusion. It was minimally seasoned and given an honest presentation with its grilled cabbage accompaniment. I have the habit of twirling my fork along its axis when I am taking my time enjoying a particularly tasty mouthful. It was somewhere during this part of the meal that my hand began to cramp from so much twirling.

The cheese course was next. Three specimens arrived garnished with pear and quince paste, paper-thin slices of fruited bread and a smear of 25 year-old balsamic. The ash-laden goat cheese was creamy and lacking the characteristic acrid aftertaste of cheap chevre. Rather, the flavor was well rounded and mellow. The Santa Maria was elegantly paired with the fruity attention of the pastes. Did I mention the balsamic was like syrup? There was too much pleasure on one plate. Really.

Alas, dessert was afoot. Two pages of selections, including beignettes that my wife chose, was a spectrum suited to please every dessertly whim. I asked our captain to choose from the gelato selections. A selection of almond-lemon, pistachio and vanilla arrived nestled in little fluted butter-sugar tuille cookies. Without resorting to cliché each was better than the next. There was an absolute understanding that taste buds are dulled in the presence of cold; the flavors were not shy, bashful or otherwise muted. There was a chorus of taste that sang lustfully after each taste awaiting the next.
To round out the meal, a two-tiered, glass and mirror jewelry box of little chocolate whimsies and cookies, including amazing biscotti, concluded the meal. Miles beyond mere mints or petite fore at the end of a meal. I had arranged earlier in the evening to have an anniversary necklace brought to the table to surprise my wife. Alas, it was nestled in the jewelry box amidst the chocolates. They had done a perfect job of not only effortlessly delivering the prize for my wife’s tolerance of putting up with me for ten years, but allowed us to share in our most memorable dining experience. We left in awe.
post #29 of 46
2 or three come to mind.

First is a lunch I had at Uncle Jacks steakhouse in winter time..went there after a early show on the the weekend, had a kobe something or other, girlfriend had surf and turf....almost empty restaurant, a bottle of wine, after dinner drinks....dessert....felt like lunch never ended and the conversation was great. And believe it or not....it was quite cheap for uncle jacks...even with a bottle of wine (there wine list is very reasonable) kobe, after dinner drinks AND dessert.

another was a nice cool summer day in my backyard, spurt of the moment I picked up filets from of all places...shoprite. Girlfriend cooked some scalloped sweet potatoes...we picked up 2 of those ready made pretty-good desserts from the bakery section....and ate outside with a bottle of wine.

For some reason that meal just tasted GREAT. one of the best steaks I've ever had.



post #30 of 46
Without question:

Le Bec-Fin in Philadelphia. Chef Georges Perrier.
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