Okra.....anyone who has lived in the deep south will find this humorous.
I have a dear friend that owns a restaurant here and grew up in Sacramento/SF.....cooked mainly on the west coast with french chefs and in DC. He and his wife use many techniques, mostly Ca. cuisine.....light fresh seasonal....plenty of veg.
Last week I was at an event and turned off my phone, got home and there were messages asking how to cook okra without it turning "slimey"......
I returned the call and said fry it or pickle it......smothered with tomato/onion/garlic/bacon/cayene has a tendency to be alittle slimed.....he'd been blanching to put on the Piccolo Fritto mixed veg plate. aka light batter fry. I've not laughed that hard in a long long time.
Aebeskivers, oh man, we love them .......raspberry jam and whipped cream!!!
Country and Southern.....interesting discussion. My grandmother was from the VA mountains and grew up in the early 1900's (born 1911) the oldest child of 11 on a small farm....she dropped out of school to help plow the fields with her father when she was very young. Her cooking is country. turnips, chard/kale have always been in her garden, crook neck squash......
New Port News VA is were she's lived for the past 60+ years.....not the south per se. So I'm thinking about her cooking and MO country cooking vs the deep southern food.....TN, MS, LA sorta, Ark sorta, AL........
Frequency comes clearly to mind. I've had the gaul to teach MS women farm owners how to make bisquits. They all had a median age of 50 and had made biscuits every morning for their husbands.
I started thinking about biscuits and white gravy.....back in 1978 I drove with my brother from Memphis to Salt Lake City for him to start college.....at that time I was curious about biscuits and cream/sausage gravy so along the route would order it at every stop (diners/truck stops etc) it was interesting to find it all along the way.
New Mexico is not really "the south", northern TX has more beef than pork so it's not the typical "south".....still there was biscuits and gravy at each stop.
Cornbread. Well, cornbread is found in most southern bread baskets.....not so much around the country. Grits on a breakfast plate end north of the MO state line. Hot Sauce on the dining room table is a standard condiment in the south, not so much in the "country homes" around here.
Long cooked beans are every where but black eyed peas are southern....field peas with snaps are southern.....
I can remember moving from Rancho Cordova CA to Jacksonville AR in the mid 1960's, asking for peas at the diner in AR and getting a mess of brown weird shapes. I looked at my mom trying to decipher what language these strange people were speaking.....peas were bright green, round and sweet.....trully rude finding out that most vegetables served in schools came out of cans and that children could be physically punished and that if you didn't have the good manners to "mam" and "sir" you were in deep doo doo. Nothing like being 7.5 years old and thrown into a culture shock.
So, BDL.....southern vs country.....lots of overlap but what do you see as the differences. Spice is probably the biggest difference. Ingredient specific? hmmmmm.....
had watermelon rind pickles last night with head cheese......