vsm,
Sorry about taking so long to jump on to this thread. I was trying to give some thought to helping you make your choice -- one of those things where too much information becomes a handicap. As it happens, I have or have had several knives in most of the lines you mentioned.
I probably wouldn't have put my feelings about and reasons for owning old and antique carbon steel in the same words you did. But they wouldn't have been all that different -- except for one area, and that's sharpness. Your knife will take an incredibly good edge, and fairly easily too! That's one of the things that makes this old French steel so good.
Congratulations on your "Nogent." As soon as you get the box from The Best Things, make sure the knife is straight. It doesn't happen very often, but some times the knives are shipped bent. If it's not straight, get in touch with TBT and arrange to return it. with the Nogents, as you can't properly repair it yourself without weakening the knife.
There's a chance the sharpening job from the factory might not have been very good. For instance the edge might not extend all the way down the heel to the return; or it may be uneven from side to side, or some other defect you wouldn't expect in a German knife. Don't worry about anything like that. You'll fix it the first couple of times you profile the knife.
The best sharpening system for the Nogent is similar to mine, and I'll get to it in a moment. But if you have or plan to buy very hard steel down the line, as in upmarket Japanese knives, you'll want to use a different set.
I use two steels for maintenance and four stones for sharpening. I don't recommend two steels, it's just that tools have a way of adding up. The best steel (honing rod, really) for your Nogent (or almost any knife for that matter) is the Hand American borosilicate. The rod is micro-grooved, and works unbelievably well. You can get it at Japanese Knife Sharpening (JKS) online for about $70.
Tied for second place are the Hand American glass smooth steel and the Idahone fine grit ceramic. The Hand American actually has four strips of two surfaces each and is useful for that. You'll use the smooth sides when the knife is freshly sharpened and polished, and the fine grooved side when the glass doesn't seem to help quite as much. Around $50. Coming in at around $20 is the Idahone fine ceramic. Given how good and how reasonably priced the Idahone is, it doesn't make sense to go through a lot of other choices. That said, any fine or extra fine grooved steel will be fine. Stay away from diamond cut, medium grooved, any ceramic rougher than 1000# or so.
I use my pair, an old Henckels fine grooved and a Hand American borosilicate, much the same way you'd use the pair of surfaces on the Hand American smooth.
You peform three functions with your stones: 1) Profiling and repairing. In other words, moving a lot of metal around by grinding. 2) Sharpening. Abrading the bevels formed by profiling to smooth them, and to make the edge sharp by making it very narrow. And 3) Polishing. That is, smoothing the bevels and the edge itself so that it glides through cuts.
I recommend four different surfaces to accomplish this: One for grinding; Two and Three for sharpening (start the wire, refine the wire) and deburring; and Four for polishing. There's no point in overpolishing a carbon steel knife as micro-corrosion attacks the edge so quickly, you can't practically maintain a high level of polish.
Anyway, here's the stone set: (A) Norton Coarse India (profiling and repairing); not the fastest coarse stone in the world, but plenty fast for old carbon. Considering it's coarseness and speed it's a particularly good stone for beginners. Used properly it's not as quick to put scratches up the side of the knife as other coarse stones.
(B) Norton fine India (first sharpening and deburring). Classic stone. Brings up a wire very quickly, which if properly deburred is good enough for most people and purposes.
(C) Hall's soft Arkansas. A little on the slow side, if used as the first sharpening stone. Used after the fine India it doesn't have that much work to do -- and does it quite well. That is, it polishes out the scratches from the India stones and lets you pull a fine wire.
(D) Hall's black Arkansas. Classic stone.
As a matter of technique, I recommend deburring after the fine India with either the fine India itself or a fine grooved steel; and deburring after the soft Arkansas on the soft Arkansas, either a smooth or extra-fine grooved steel, or a pad such as a "rock-hard" felt. I also recommend using the stones without oil -- either with water or dry, preferably dry; and cleaning the stones in the dishwasher or in boiling water to which a little bit of dishwashing powder has been added.
I recommend the India and Arkansas stone over waterstones because they take far less of their own maintenance. If you're sharpening very hard steel knives the set becomes so slow as to be frustrating; and it's worth the extra trouble and expense to step up to good waterstones.
Anyway, that's it for freehanding. If you want to use a tool and jig setup, I recommend the EdgePro Apex (set 2).
If you want to use a machine, use either the Chef's Choice 1520 or XV. If you do decide to use a home (as opposed to professional) sharpening machine, Chef's Choice is as cheap as you can get. Other Chef's Choice models like the 120 and 130 will give you a sharp knife but not as good as the 1520 and XV, because of the different geometries of the edges.
Your Nogent can (and should) be sharpened to a 15* single bevel on each side with 50/50 symmetry (that's why I specified the 1520 and XV). That means profiling the factory edge which is set at around 20* or so. Your edge should be good enough to "fall" through a tomato -- with the weight of the knife alone. With frequent steeling it will hold an edge well enough (about 90%), to not require re-sharpening more than once every 5 or 6 weeks or so. Steel when you feel the knife loses some performance. Sharpen when steeling won't restore 90% of it anymore.
Hope this helps,
BDL