Ok let me be the first to say that I sincerely hope that everyone's favorite cooking site on the net is ChefTalk ! I will agree there are other sites that are much more recipe focused and ChefTalk can't really compete in the area.
http://www.ontherail.com/ is pretty neat, also. It also has a section for the waitrons. It's neat to read their postings regarding Anthony Bourdain. Apparently, he isn't as popular with them as he is with us!
There was a article about the stained apron website in the paper here. I visited and read some comments. What I read there makes me want to eat at home for the rest of my life. I couldn't believe restaurant staff could be that discusting.
When I get a little money, I buy books. And if there is any left over, I buy food.