Assuming you want a regular western handle, and you want a stainless knife...
Top Three:
MAC Pro, Sakai Takayuki Grand Cheff, Hiromoto Gingami no. 3.
MAC Pro combines the best features of Japanese knives and western knives at a reasonable price. By Japanese standards it's extremely stiff, something most western cooks really like. It gets very sharp easily, much sharper than you could get any Wusthof. MAC knives have excellent handles, some of the very best in the business -- and as these go the MAC Pro is among their best. MAC doesn't publicize which steel goes into which knife, although they do say the Pro series uses a higher does of moly and vanadium than their lesser lines. Although an expert sharpener using really top flight stones, could get a better edge on knives made with more exotic steels. The knife his hardened to around HrC 59.
The knife is considerably lighter and handles much better than any mass-produced western manufactured knife. If you keep the factory bevel (symmetric 50/50 at a flat 15*) the knife can easily be maintained on a good rod hone (aka "steel).
The Grand Cheff is more Japanese feeling than the MAC. Slightly lighter and considerably more flexible, but not as flexible as a lot of other Japanese knives. The GC is made with Swedish "strip steel" (made for razor blades) and takes an unbelievably good edge. Better even than the MAC. It's only hardened to HrC 58 though. Like the MAC, if appropriately beveled, it can be maintained on a steel. Same steel and stone recommendations, btw.
Hiromoto G3. I like a lot of things about this knife. As with other Hirmotos, great prices considering the quality of the steel used. This is the most Japanese feeling of the three. It's a very agile knife, very lively, very communicative. It sharpens as well as any exotic stainless steel, and better than amost anything else. The knife is hardened to around HrC, which means you can use a steel if the knife is appropriately beveled -- but it's got to be an appropriate steel and has to be used well (no clanging!). However it's got a fairly slender handle. As I recall, you have large hands. I have big paws as well, and don't have hany problem at all with the Hiromoto. That said, I use a very soft pinch grip. You might find the handles problematic.
Not recommeded, but also very good:
Misono UX-10. It's an extremely good knife with possibly the best handle anywhere ever. But it's a bit on the whippy side and pretty hard to sharpen. It's also a bit pricey. If you have your heart set on it, don't let me talk you out of it -- you'll learn to sharpen.
Misono Moly is a nice knife -- just not as good as the MAC or Grand Cheff.
Masamoto VG. it's a lot of money for what it is, and also very whippy. BTW, I love Masamotos and if I were purchasing new western handled knives Masamoto carbons would be on the top of my list.
Togiharu. Togiharu's two top lines are essentially Masamoto clones. The stainless copies the VG, is less expensive, but not quite as nice in any way as the Masamoto.
Any carbon knives. I figure you don't want them. If you're at all interested in carbon, the list changes.
Sharpening:
For people just starting out, but already committed to waterstone sharpening the Naniwa Super series (with bases) is an excellent choice. I'd go 400, 1000, 5000, and 8000. I'd also flatten on dry wall screen rather than buying a super-coarse flattening stone.
The Idahone fine (12") is an excellent and inexpensive rod hone (aka a ceramic steel). The MAC black is too. The best value steel (made from steel) is the Forschner fine.
Full disclosure:
Of my most frequently used kitchen knives, nearly all are vintage carbon, from one Sabatier or another. They're sharpened with Norton coarse and fine India stones, and Hall's soft and surgical black Arkansas stones. They're steeled on a HandAmerican Borosilicate Glass rod, and on a thirty year old, well-worn Henkels extra fine steel (no longer made).
Purchasing:
You can get the MAC from a lot of sources. Check the net for best prices.
Sakai Takayuki is available through Seito Trading (online). You'll have to be specific about exactly which knive you want, since they don't show a wide selection on their website. You can see the entire line at the Sakai Takayuki website,
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You can find the Hirmoto G3 at
Hiromoto Gingami No.3 Japanese Knife,Japanese Kitchen Knife,Japanese Cutlery,Japanese Chef's Knives.Com: 400px; HEIGHT: 182px
The best prices for a set of Naniwa Supers at Tools for Working Wood.
Japanese Super-Stones by Naniwa at Tools for Working WoodOne more thing:
Japanese knives are manuractured in "Sun" rather than centimers or inches and the are sold on the international market in centimeters. The most common lengths are 210, 240 and 270cm. Roughly 8", 9-3/8" and 10-5/8". If you have a large enough station, the 10-5/8" will probably be most productive -- although it will take you a few weeks to learn to handle the extra length if you're used to an 8" knife.
Hope this helps,
BDL