As Blaise Pascal (and Mark Twain) said.... I'd have written a shorter note if I had more time.
I'm not sure what sharpening resources you've been pointed to, but I think all of these. A short checklist:
Chad Ward's chapter from "An Edge In the Kitchen" (also online on the egullet site)
The first several videos on the CKTG site
The videos on the Japanese Knife Imports site (particularly, IMO, the "Angles of Approach" video is helpful for new folks who are otherwise looking at the CKTG videos)
Off the top of my head, that's probably plenty to begin. I'd emphasize (again) using the sharpie to paint your edge so you can see whether you're hitting it, or too obtuse; and using the "handle" hand to maintain the angle, and (maybe this is more individual, but usually) the hand on the blade with less-than-instinctive pressure. Monitor whether you are pressing hard enough to cause extra wobble. Some people do press very hard on purpose, and it works for them. But I'm pretty sure you'll want to learn to go lighter before you'll get much out of learning to bear down more.
Good luck with finals. And don't think you're anything like the most "anal" of forum participants. No worries there.





